Most teens nowadays are very active when it comes to
their sexual life. Most parents who are concerned with their children
would love to educate them as much as they can, but some still feel a
little shy and uncomfortable discussing safe sex with their teens.
Just the thought of their children growing old enough to use birth
control can be a scary thought as it is a realization that their little
boy or girl is really growing up. Still, it is vital for parents to talk
to their children so that they will be properly guided and not suffer
unwanted pregnancy or get sexually transmitted diseases.
Here is a
simple guide for parents out there who have no idea how to initiate the
"sex talk" with their kids. Remember that this is a means of protecting
them from making reckless decisions when it comes to relationships,
sex, and condoms.
First off, parents should not assume that their
kids just buy condoms online or that they have latex condoms sitting
comfortably in their purse of pockets. Be the first one to educate them
as hearing it from somewhere else wherein information might not be
accurate could lead to unsafe practices.
When you prepare yourself
to have the talk about helping your child to choose the best birth
control up to the point of selecting the best condoms in the market,
make sure that you have chosen the perfect time to do so. The topic can
also make teens uncomfortable, especially discussing it with their
parents. Wait for the time where you are both calm. Start off by having
open line communication about everyday happenings so the teenager will
feel it much easier to talk about bigger issues such as sex. You may
read some lecture material but do not lecture and just ease it into the
conversation. There are centers you can approach that can also lecture
you about using condoms and other birth control methods.
After
choosing the perfect time, ask for a private conversation. Do it over
lunch outside or somewhere far away from the rest of the family. Share
to the child your point of view when it comes to sexual activity. You
may give him advice on abstinence but also the option that if he chose
to be sexually active, there are birth control methods available. This
talk should also be done with girls, so that they are not left
unprotected when the male partner forgets to bring a pack. Girls should
know where to buy condoms and how to use them too.
Always be supportive of your child's decisions. Remind yourself
that you have raised a responsible individual so give yourself some
praise and give him the benefit of the doubt.
Adapted from EzineArticles.com/8319662
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